Small daily rituals are not just repetitions of the same activities. They mainly have a deep impact on our mental health, a sense of stability, and overall satisfaction. Because we perform them regularly, they help us predict what the day will be like, bringing calmness and system into our lives. This is especially important in times of uncertainty, loneliness, or stress. And if you think you don’t have any established and ingrained daily routines, try finding inspiration in this article.
Why should we actually have our daily rituals?
1. They bring stability and a sense of security – they are our daily ANCHORS
When we create our daily rituals (e.g., drinking morning tea or coffee, taking a short walk, evening reflection), our brain perceives these moments as anchors that provide us with a sense of certainty. We know that the day flows from one anchor to another, allowing us to move through familiar “boundaries” throughout the day.
2. They help manage loneliness – we take care of our SELF
Rituals provide predictability that weakens the feeling of emptiness. Thanks to their regularity, we feel that we are continually taking care of and cultivating our self.
For example, regularly writing in a journal, morning meditation, or reading a book before bedtime. It gives us the good feeling that we are not alone with our problems.
3. They reduce stress and anxiety – they calm the NERVES
It is proven that repetitive activities soothe the nervous system. For example, mindful tea drinking, regular walks, or breathing exercises help slow the mind and release tension. If we allow ourselves even just a few minutes of “staring out the window into nothing” or a walk in the forest or park, we will naturally start to calm down on our own.
4. They increase focus and productivity – we THINK better
Small rituals, such as morning planning or five minutes of mindfulness before work, help sharpen the mind and better organize the day.
5. They support self-awareness and gratitude – we become more GRATEFUL
Morning thought journaling, 20 minutes of listening to pleasant music at noon, or moments in silence help us better understand ourselves, process emotions, and find more gratitude in life. When we feel gratitude, we experience a greater sense of purpose and happiness.
6. They bring joy and meaning to ordinary days – we perceive BEAUTY
Small gestures—such as lighting a candle at dinner, listening to birds in the trees, watching clouds, having coffee after lunch while looking at the landscape, or a gentle hand massage before bed—add beauty and presence to life. If we put away our mobile phones for a moment, stop rushing, and let our surroundings affect us, we will start to feel and perceive their beauty.
7. They help build good habits – we become more HEALTHY
When you create small regular rituals, it becomes easier to build healthy habits. For example, drinking a glass of water every morning upon waking, stretching in bed, walking through your garden with a cup of fragrant tea, or taking a 10-minute walk after lunch. "A healthy body hosts a healthy mind."
There are certainly more reasons why implementing daily rituals helps us so much. The important thing is that establishing them is not complicated. They are small actions, usually short moments. Most of the time, we already do them, just without a set regularity. And for those who still don’t know or want to add a new ritual, here are some ideas and examples of daily rituals we can incorporate.
Examples of Daily Rituals:
1. Rituals after waking up
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- Wake up at the same time, open the window, and take a deep breath of fresh air (3–5 minutes) – listen to how the city or the neighborhood wakes up, how the birds sing around you, smile.
- Conscious breathing or a short meditation (3–5 minutes) – right after waking up, sit on your bed or stay lying down and focus on your breath. Simply observe how the air flows in and out.
- Stretch, do a few exercises to warm up your body (3–10 minutes) – stretch your back, neck, arms, and legs. A simple stretch with an inhale and exhale. Your body will thank you.
- Drink a glass of water with lemon or herbal tea – after the night, your body is dehydrated. Drink a glass of pure water – you can add a few drops of lemon. It helps kickstart digestion and gently wakes up the body from the inside. Just use the lemon within 30 minutes of cutting it, as that’s when it is alkaline.
- Gratitude journal (1 minute) – take a small notebook or a piece of paper (keep it in your nightstand drawer) and write down 1–3 things you are grateful for – even something small ("I am warm," "I have a nice breakfast waiting for me," "Making love with my wife was wonderful"). This helps tune your mind to a positive frequency right from the morning.
- Daily intention – ask yourself a simple question: "What kind of day do I want today to be?" You can say an affirmation like: "Today, I wish for peace." Or visualize something nice that you want to experience during the day.
2. Daily Movement
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- Stretch like an animal right after waking up (1–2 minutes) – as soon as you get out of bed, become an animal, roar, stretch your arms and legs far, take a deep breath, roll your shoulders, move your spine… And all this before you put on your slippers. Wake up your body naturally, and get your energy flowing.
- Walk outside (forest, park, city) – connecting with nature supports mental health. It has been proven that an hour-long walk calms your mind. Give it at least 30 minutes.
- Chair as a gym – during the day (2–3 minutes) – every hour or two, get up from your chair for a moment and do: 5 squats, 5 hip circles, 10 arm lifts above your head with a deep breath. Set a timer, so you don’t forget. This stretches your body, which shortens and stiffens from sitting.
- Dance – 5 minutes of hip movement, after a meal or during a break, take a walk – even if it’s just around your apartment, up the stairs, or on the balcony. Play some music if you want. Move your body, dance a little, support digestion, and refresh your mind. Name your little dance moves, your meal-time movement anchors.
- 50 seconds in the bathroom – create a small ritual like: "When I brush my teeth, I do calf raises." Or engage your pelvic floor. You will develop a new habit and incorporate natural movement into daily activities.
3. Meditation or Mindfulness
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- Three conscious breaths anytime during the day (30 seconds). Close your eyes, relax your shoulders, and take three slow, deep breaths in and out. While inhaling (through your nose), you can say: "I breathe in calm." While exhaling (through your mouth): "I breathe out tension." This will calm you down in any situation – even in the middle of a busy day. Anchor this practice several times daily – after work meetings, phone calls, or completing a task.
- Mindful walking – movement mindfulness (1–3 minutes). While walking (at home, in the garden, or in a park), consciously feel each step. How your feet touch the ground, how your body moves. If possible, take off your shoes and walk barefoot. This shifts your focus from your head to your body and the present moment. Incorporate it into your meal breaks.
- Mindful observation of one object (2–3 minutes). Choose any object (a mug, a leaf, a stone) and try to observe it with full attention: its color, shape, texture, smell. As if you were seeing it for the first time. This trains focus and presence in the moment. For example, integrate this with your morning tea-making ritual.
- Sound of silence – micro-meditation with a bell or silence (1–2 minutes). Ring a small bell or play a sound (e.g., a Tibetan bowl) and just listen until the sound completely fades away. Then stay in silence for a while and simply feel the present moment. This helps achieve deep relaxation and inner peace. Connect the sound of silence with sitting on a park bench or returning home from work.
- Listen to healing frequencies – if you can’t fall asleep or wake up at night with racing thoughts, put on headphones and listen to healing Solfeggio frequencies (e.g., on Spotify). They help harmonize your body, boost your mind, and support healing.
4. Creating a Stable Eating Routine
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- Ritual of regular meal times. Set three main meal times (e.g., breakfast at 8:00, lunch at 12:30, dinner at 18:30) and stick to them as consistently as possible. This establishes a rhythm in your body and prevents sudden hunger attacks. And remember the saying: "Eat breakfast like a king, share lunch with a friend, and give dinner to your enemy." Follow this metaphorically in portion sizes as well.
- One minute of silence before eating. Before starting your meal, pause for a moment. Take a deep breath, give thanks (in thought, prayer, smile, or touch) for the food, or simply appreciate its smell and colors. This supports mindful and calm eating without rushing.
- Mindful eating – whenever you eat, put your phone aside, close your laptop, or step away from your computer. Stop or turn off the TV, and remove your headphones. Focus only on your food. Chew thoroughly. Savor the flavors and aromas. Take another bite only after you’ve finished the previous one. Eat slowly.
- Sunday meal planning for the week (10 minutes). Every Sunday, write down a few ideas for what you want to eat during the week (breakfast, lunch, dinner). It doesn’t have to be detailed – just a rough plan. Keep a meal ideas list in your calendar. This prevents impulsive eating and stress over "What will I cook again?"
- Color ritual on your plate. When serving food, pay attention to colors – aim to have at least three different colors on your plate (e.g., green, red, orange). This promotes a varied diet and greater appreciation for meal quality.
5. Connection with People (Even When You’re Alone)
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- One kind message a day. Send a short message to someone close – just a few words, like: "I thought of you today. How are you?" Maintain soft and human connections without pressure. Use SMS, WhatsApp, Messenger, or even leave a note on the fridge for your loved one.
- Hearing another person’s voice – listen to a podcast or a voice message. Play a podcast or a conversation for a few minutes, or send a voice message instead of writing an email. Hearing a human voice brings presence and connection.
- Short memory connection. Close your eyes and visualize someone you care about. Send them a silent wish like: "May you have a wonderful day." Consciously strengthening these inner bonds, even from a distance, will put a smile on your face and warm your heart.
- Shared time ritual – coffee with someone in mind. While having coffee, tea, or a meal, imagine that someone is with you. You can "talk" to them in your mind as if they were sitting across from you. Send a message saying you’re "having coffee" with them in spirit and chatting about life. The goal is to feel warmth and connection.
- A letter you may never send. Write a short letter or note to someone – even to a person you no longer talk to or someone who has passed away. Express your emotions inwardly and establish a connection through written words and your inner world. You can then burn the letter as a ritual or let it float away in water. Imagine that your message has reached the recipient's mind and that they are thinking of you with kindness at that moment.
So that was the first 5 areas. Just a few ideas and tips.
Of course, we’re not stopping here, and next time, we’ll focus on others, such as:
- Digital detox, digital family, and offline time
- Evening reflection and relaxation
- Calming nighttime routine before sleep
- Routines based on seasons and time of year
- Rituals for weekends and holidays
- Creative activities, etc.
Do you have any daily rituals of your own? Let us know. Thank you!